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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi All, my ex girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. After the first 4-6 weeks of feeling horrible, I started to be ok, still sad, but I was coping well I thought. I found out she'd been on a few dates with another guy, and after the horrible 2 mins of thinking about it, I was fine. Long story short, I saw her last night due to an arrangement we'd had from before we broke up. It was a little wierd, until I asked if she's seeing anyone, she said no and asked me, after a few minutes she told me the truth.We talked about old times, how we feel and lots of stuff after that, and she said she's "moved on" but still cares about me alot etc.. It still feels like we're pretty close, and its wierd to know how to handle that as she's obviously not interested in trying again. I felt terrible all last night, really down, couldn't sleep for more then an hour without waking up and just cant get her off my mind this morning either.I feel so lonely and helpless, can anyone offer any advice or experiences to help me out?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): Go back to being who you were before you met her.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 Sorry to hear you're in some distress over the break up. It is hard to get over, and when you hear that the one you split up with has gotten back and started dating, it's very tough to handle.
I found an article for you on DearCupid; it might be helpful to you to read and think about.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-ex.html
Take care, stay busy and keep your friends close around you.
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