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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. we have lived together in a house i bought for 3 years. she says that she doesnt think we are meant to be together. i cant be without her. i need her back. how can i prove to her that we are meant to be together ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): You deserve someone who knows for sure they want to be with you. If you try chasing her you will just drive her further away.You shouldn't have to prove anything. If she doesn't want to be with you, that's her loss. Don't make the same mistakes I did, by begging her to come back. It will make you look weak in her eyes and will not make you feel good.My advice: Avoid all contact with her for a couple of months. You will need this. During this time get out there, meet friends, take up a hobby, keep busy!!!I know you don't want to have this as an answer, but why waste your time on someone who's not sure they want you? Do you want to live you whole life having these doubts in your head, not knowing if she's into you as much as you're into her?You need to move on. You WILL find someone else.
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