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writes: I am 25 years old male. My friend, Danny, and I are Bi-curious and we both want to keep our sexual relationship a secret.When we were at his house, we both undress each other and started making love. Next thing we notice, his door opens up and his 14 years old sister, Lisette, caught us making love to each other. Luckly, she has not told anybody what she saw (at least I am hoping she hasn't). We had the door lock, but the lock failed (Danny did not shut the door good enough).Should Danny and I talk to Lisette about what she saw? How should we explain to her that we are only Bi-curious and we do not wish for anybody else to know? Any advice would be wel-come. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (23 May 2010):
Yes, have Danny talk to his little sister. I'm sure she's old enough to know about sex and sexuality. She'll understand. Just be calm and explain to her that she wasn't meant to see what she saw and that she should keep it to herself. Explain to her that you two were just curious and testing out your sexuality. Good luck
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reader, laetitia +, writes (22 May 2010):
That is indeed a very very awkward situation to be in. I think that Danny should to talk to Lisette. She is not that young. At 14, I had already had at least 1 bf, so she probably has the capacity to understand.
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