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We both think going down on each other is gross. What can we do?

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Question - (16 August 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im dating a guy who was a virgin before i met him. we have basically done everything except oral on me. he tried oral on me once but didnt like it. he thinks its gross because of my natural scent. i told him there is nothing wrong but he insists its gross.

the scent and flavor of his semen is discusting though. he eats alot of meat and its bitter and salty.

help!!!

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (17 August 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntThen don't do it if you both don't like it!

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A female reader, beachbabe Chile +, writes (17 August 2009):

beachbabe agony auntYou guys should try eating more fruits, it makes everything sweet & smell good. Also you should try using whip cream to make it fun!

& you shouldnt worry about doing oral you guys are still young.. you both have tons of time to get into it..lol

have fun =]

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (16 August 2009):

Basschick agony auntIf it doesn't appeal to either of you, then skip it. I don't think anyone should do something they don't enjoy. Sex is about pleasure. So if it doesn't bring you pleasure then skip it.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (16 August 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntThis guy sounds like a vagina conisuer welll i would say tell your guy to eat better oh pinneapple for guys i heard makes it taste better not that i will ever no he can eat cans of pinneaple it migth work for girls to i dont kno maybe he could numb his toungue with ice or just take one for the team

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

This may be a maturity thing... and you both may grow into enjoying oral sex - For you, semem is only going to show up when he comes, so you'll be tasting it at the end of the deed. Pre-cum will leak out while you're sucking him, but it shouldn't have much taste or texture. If you don't like the taste of his semem, then you need to either learn to take his cock deeper in your throat (so he shoots past your tounge) or learn to swallow it quickly, or have a tissue handy to spit it into. I for one, don't enjoy a woman rushing into the bathroom right after a blowjob all that sexy.

As for him, he needs to grow a pair, and get down there... a woman's jucies are fairly unique - some are sweet, some musky, I've had one that was acidic (my least favorite flavor, BUT she was a great girl and I gladly did it!)

Guys all need to understand how speacial it is to make love to a woman, and going down on her until she can't stand it (or comes like a crazy woman) is all part of it!

Good luck! You'll find a guy that enjoys going down on you soon! College is a GREAT time!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

Don't do anything you don't like doing. By the way, you can buy flavoured condoms, strawberry, banana, bubblegum flavour, vanilla, chocolate, and gel, strawberry etc you can put on him or on the condom. And there are plastic sheets to go on the women too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009):

Try oral sex after you have both showered. Put a finger there immediately after shower and smell it. It will have no different scent than your freshly washed hand or thigs or... you get the idea. My partner smells excellent even after a whole day without showering - it's also a matter of getting used to this. But do as I say, experiment after you are clean and feel clean and confident. Use a towel to spit the fluids if you don't like them. But the skin itself should have no strange scent in the mentioned conditions.

If you both don't like oral sex after this, then it's great that you both feel the same about this matter. Some couples have a hard time when only one of the two like a certain tecnique, which the other can't provide. All the best.

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A female reader, xAx United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2009):

xAx agony auntYou need to tell him to eat more of something that you like. Lets say you like apples, tell him to eat many apples, and eventually, his semen will taste like it. Yes, it is true. What boys eat does affect the taste of semen.

With you, i don't know if the same thing can be said, but you can try to eat something sweet over a period of time and try again.

So you know, not all boys do not like the taste. My boyfriend does and i can't understand how or why.

Hope this helps X

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