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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have recently met the boy, and he has suddenly became one of th main importance in my life... i have a 10 month old baby girl, and he has a 15 months old girl... we seemeed to get in soo well suddenly we havent... i am totally depressed by it... what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): First of all - no man should be the "main importance" in your life - it should be your child. Your child's well-being should come before any man, always.
Secondly, if things were meant to be then they will be. If you got on well and now you don't then that just means that he is not the guy for you, no matter how much you like him. Chalk it up to experience.
Finally, take time to enjoy your child and if you meet someone who is good, kind and gets on well with your daughter then that is great, but make sure that (a) he understands that your baby has to come first (and if he doesn't then get rid of him) and (b) make sure that you are careful with your contraception - don't make things worse by having another baby right now!
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