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30-35,
*aybaybay_x
writes:My boyfriend and I have been through a bit of a rough patch. Arguing and falling out over petty things.We are okay and have decided to work things out and put everything behind us. However, now it seems the spark is gone and I don't know whether it's just me or we both need to get back into the mindset that we're okay now and we want to be together.We spent nearly a month apart but always with the intention of being together.I admit I was very critical and naggy and he kinda stopped being sweet because I'd be quite unforgiving.On his end, he seems very casual. Texts me but never calls. He never really goes out of his way to see what I'm up to anymore or does sponteneous facetime calls etc.It's his birthday soon and I'm taking him to eat and also on a night boat ride. Do you think there's a way of salvaging things or have we messed up our bond for good?
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reader, Kakata  +, writes (22 December 2014):
 Dear Kaybaybay_x,
I believe that this can still work out for you both, you may want to do things that you both had fun doing together. You can also look for the qualities in him that made you have that spark in the first place. It may take time, but if you want to work things out with him, it will be worth it.
I hope that your relationship works out for you both.
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