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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Why won't he call or answer my texts we have a couple of bads things going on right now and am trying so hard to make everything right but the only way for me to get in contact with him is to ring him he won't reply to my texts or anything and am to scared to ring him up just incase he says am moaning or something but the things is we both agree we would give this another go give it a couple of weeks and see how it is when we see each other next but he won't see me i know i can make this right if i just see him but how can i get him to.He say he confused and there nothing i can do or say to make it better but won't tell me what he confused about.The thing is he going to a gig on Saturday and i know the last time (we where not going out then) he got off with some lass and if things are bad whats to say he not waiting to see how its goes at the gig see if he pulls or not then leave now am so confused !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, elsie +, writes (16 April 2007):
 you dont explain why hes confused theres nothing glaringly obvious as to why hed treat you like this.sorry honey but he sounds like a user big time.he knows damm well you need to talk and are desperate to see him.if he had any feelings at all hed at least give you a decent explanation for all of this.how cruel of him to taunt you about the gig.youll come out of it and look back in anger.thats all he deserves and you deserve better.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): As much as I personally know you want to call repeditively and feel like your going to die if you don't talk to him. Don't do it! Don't call, don't text, and try not to even speak his name. Give him the space he needs, while in the meantime you can think about yourself. Do something that you have always wanted to do but always held back. It will make you happier and remind you that you still belong to yourself, even though you feel you gave all of you to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): You cant make someone want you or love you.He needs to sort out what he wants on his own and unfortunatley there is no guarantee that will be you. If you pressure him or he knows your desperate he may keep you as a plan B which means for sex not for commited love.A difficult one cos if you leave him to it he may think you dont care, but if you bin seding txts he prob knows u do.I would chance backing off and seeing if he misses u.If not u are only goin get hurt anyway and shud move on.
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