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writes: O.k., I know there are stages in a relationship, but I am stuck in one and cant seem to move on. I still am in the beginning stages and he seems to have gone into the familiarity stage. You know, where there is less love speeches and gestures. I am insecure about how he feels now. How do I move past this, because I feel betrayed and let down?
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 Alot of women love the early stages of a relationship where as alot of men love the familiar stage, plus alot of men just don't think or realise until you point it out to them.
You need to talk to him and explain how you are feeling and find a happy medium between the two stages.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): The only thing what i can think of to do is tell him more often how much you love him and if he says it back or show emotion then thats a good answer from him.It sounds as if he has just got more comfortable around you and he has reached the more comfortable part of the relationship.Has he done anything otherwise to make you feel less wanted or loved?
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reader, Keeley +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Hey come on OK your a bit insecure but just think hhe may have stopped the gestures but you can still cary that on. We all know some guys are lazy when it come to that sort of thing - you know, they start off with all good intentions but then they forget cos they are in a comfort zone. Relax and just go with the flow if you feel comfortable wth your love speeches ad gestures you keep at it girl and enjoy your relationship with him, dont feel let down by something that he probably doesn't realise he is doing.
Chin up and enjoy
Big Love to you both
Keeley (smile)
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