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writes: I met this cute tall handsome looking guy at my birthday get together. Since then we had been talking and started dating shortly. I was so happy dating him cos he was everything I wanted in a man physically. I often dreamt about us having a future with him since he's so promising at the initial sage of our relationship. I got to find out he buys his result at college. I asked him why he said he was only doing the engineering course which he failed horribly at cos his father had tried for him and he wanted to impress his father. But he is very good in economics and says that is what he love. I believe him. But I also got to find out he dated one of the most popular girls in my school who had a sex tape and he knew of it before dating her. I am also very popular too and have status. I was very offended and broke up with him later as I always found whatever he did offensive. We are dating again and don't even call each other in months but we are still dating. so funny. I really don't have his time but I feel I might be letting go off something good as I believe in him. Is it a good enough reason to leave him cos of the girl he dated or I should just leave him since I am no longer attracted to him. I am also a proud person and this affect my relationship with other people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012): You're clearly not still dating if you don't even call each other. I think you should either get the ball rolling again or call the idea off all together.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (7 September 2012):
 If you don't speak to each other for months then you're not dating. There is no relationship therefore no need for an uncomfortable break up. In fact you'd look rather silly trying to break up with him.
I think that about covers it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes I did post it
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 September 2012):
 "he buys his result at college" what does this mean?
you don't call each other for months but are still dating?
no you're not dating... if you get together and have sex now and then you are FWB nothing more...
if you are not attracted to him then end it.
did you post this:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-a-no-nonsense-person-could-this-be4.html
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