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We are not going out and he started touching me, does he like me?

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Question - (10 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

well thers this guy and we're not goin out or any thing but when we snogged he got close to me and started fellin me up what does this mean does it mean he like me as more than a friend

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (10 December 2009):

DrPsych agony auntYes he probably likes you as more than friends. However teenage boys have attention spans of goldfish when it comes to girls they fancy - don't buy your wedding dress just yet, he may fancy another girl next week. Teenage boys also tend to be insecure in this age of peer-pressure to have done anything and everything sexual under the sun before their classmates. If you like him, slow things down and get his hands out of your jumper. If he stays around for a while when you make it clear you are not his 'lab rat' for sexual experimentation then you will see if he likes you, or just your body. If he loses interest, thank your lucky stars as you are too good to be treated badly right?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (10 December 2009):

What it means is that he wanted to feel some boobs and since you let him, he did it.

If you want him to like you then please please please learn that guys won't respect you or want to be with you if you let them do what they want.

They'll assume you let any guy just snog you and touch you up and not want you as a girlfriend.

If he tries to kiss you again tell him you don't want a casual thing and regret letting him get so far when he wasn't your boyfriend.

If he says fine then and buggers off then you know he was just using you. If he says he likes you then get to know him, talk to him and be going out before you let him near you again.

Take your time and make him wait if you want him to respect you.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 December 2009):

Given the fact he snogged you in the first place, I would say yes. But get to know him first, don't just let him use you.

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