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30-35,
*il_lezza
writes:Im 18 and my girlfriend is 40. I have some trust issues and im finding it hard to cope while my girlfriends ex keeps ringing and texting. Her ex does not know she is in a relationship because of the age gap, my girlfriend is too scared to say. But i really hate it when her ex calls her baby and asks her to come up and play with her. Im pretty sure my girlfriend would never cheat and shes been split up with her ex for two years but it still really bugs me. I want her ex to know that shes my baby now and shes playing with me!!!! If she knew that i was in the picture, im hoping she would back off. The ex has met me and she saw me and my girlfriend kissing and knew we were going home together but she told my girlfriend she dissaproved and thought i was too young, this is why my girlfriends scared to say. What should we do????
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reader, lil_lezza +, writes (2 April 2008):
lil_lezza is verified as being by the original poster of the question They were with each other for three years and are pretty close. I think my girlfriends scared of her family knowing because neither of us have decided to tell them yet. And if her ex found out she would definately tell her family.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (2 April 2008):
 Why does your girlfriend care so much if her ex approves or not? It has nothing to do with her. i dont really understand why she is so scared of what she thinks.
I can understand why it bugs you so much that she is contacting your girlfriend but at the same time, if she doesnt know that she is in a relationship, it cant REALLY be said that she is doing anything wrong. For all she knows your girlfriend is single and she is not doing anything wrong by calling her.
I think your girlfriend needs to at least tell her that she doesnt want her calling anymore or calling her baby and that she doesnt want to be invited over to her house. She doesnt necessarily need to tell her shes in a relationship with you if she doesnt want to but i think she should say its not gonna happen so to leave her alone.
Take care
Brooke
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