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writes:Well, this is the first time i ever post something...and... i must admit i am a bit nervous.My boyfriend and have been together for about a year and a half. We truly believe we are meant to be. Since the beginning of our relationship we have always had trust to talk to each other just about anything. About a two months ago, we had our first sexual intercourse. In my opinion, it was a beautiful experience. Although we are 19 and 20 years of age, we are inexperienced. That night we really did not know what we were doing. We've been sexually active ever since but my main concern is..... He says he does not feel anything when we do it. What could the issue be? Could it be due to the use of the condom? Or what could it possibly be?
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reader, Candleman +, writes (14 October 2009):
 It very easily could be the condom. I hate the damn things for the lack of sensation, and am glad I am with a wife who is on the pill. I would consider getting birth control pills. Talk to your doctor. Now they do have sensitive condoms that use a thinner material. I've used them before in the past and have not had problems with them. Obviously you run the risk of them breaking more so than the thicker kind, so be cautious if you use them. Some things that can help... You can angle yourselves so that the penis is not going straight in and out rather it is rubbing on the walls of your vagina. Be sure to tell him if it hurts because you can rub it too much. This is good to do w/ or w/out a condom as it explores more of your inside area. Also, there are things called Kegel exercises that you personally can do in order to tighten your vagina which would provide more sensation. Look these up online. Basically what you do is the same action that you use to stop your flow of pee. Do this while he is inside of you. The muscles contract and it grips the penis more. Enjoy
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