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anonymous
writes: We have been married for 12 years now, it was a love marriage. Everything seems ok but we seem to have lost passion for each other. Usually sex seems like a chore, my husband insists on having sex but always want to role play without which he almost never gets an erection. When we role play the sex turns out to be great many a times. I just want to know if this is happening with us or most couples experience it. Is role playing common? Please advise what can we do to get the passion back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2015): Role play is common, it's good that after 12 years you guys still role play. Is it normal that if you don't use role play he doesn't get an erection, I don't know. The reason you feel like you guys have lost the passion in your relationship is probably you guys don't make love. If I were I would hold it off for awhile then whenever you decide to let him have sex, don't just have sex make love. I don't know if this will help your situation or not but it's the best advice I have
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