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female
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51-59,
*mber1
writes: I have been with my fella for 3 years now (I am 37 and he is 40). A week ago today we had a disagreement, we don't really argue, but my fella does tend to go off and will sulk and maybe not speak for a few days? We do not live together. Anyway, I have not heard from him via txt or phone all week? It is driving me mad as my stomach is worked up. He has teenagers and prior to me was only in 1 long term relationship (the mother of the children). Why is he doing this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (18 February 2007):
You say he likes to sulk and not speak for days. It sounds par for the course for him then.
He may need time to re-evaluate his relationship with you, which will give you time to re-evaluate your relationship with him.
If it's bothering you so much, the last time I checked, phones and text messages can be delivered from either end. LOL.
Why can't you call him to find out what the deal is?
Communication is the key to any successful relationship. Try it! You can tell him that too, the next time you talk to him. Sulking is no way to communicate!
Good luck!
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