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writes: Okay, so I met a guy online through Facebook and we've been talking for about 3 weeks. We have mutual friends and he goes to a law school in my hometown. He asked me if I'd like to go for coffee sometime this week and we both decided on Tuesday. We never discussed a definite time. Well it's Tuesday and have yet to hear anything from him! I didn't say anything to him either because since HE asked me, I felt it was his place to set the details.. Was this guy just playing around?
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reader, fishdish +, writes (23 December 2009):
I don't think it was intentional either, there's no reason for him to go out of his way to figure out around a law school schedule when is a good day to meet up, he may have just got caught up in work--reschedule and it should work out
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reader, bridgettesamerica +, writes (23 December 2009):
his named wouldnt happened to be denis would it.. if so.. girl turn around and run
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): maybe something had just come up i wouldnt jump to too many conclusions just yet. when you do hear from him see if he has an explanation and if so next time plan your date properly.
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reader, ibob +, writes (23 December 2009):
Ask him! While you're waiting for him to contact you, he could be waiting for you to contact him. Maybe he's just as unsure about things as you are. You've nothing to lose by contacting him!
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reader, cottongin +, writes (23 December 2009):
I don't think he was "playing around". It is possible he has a lot going on or is just generally spacy and forgetful. Also, guys do this a lot i've noticed! Don't stress about it, but if you are interested still, then you can always initiate something, then you can set an actual time day and place next time.
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