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writes:Okay so this isn't a really major one but last night I went to a nightclub with my mates, then one of the guys who I've know for about a year (we don't really text or anything) well he's jut got a job which will mean he is living abroad for sixth months. Last night he spent a lot of time dancing with me getting quite close and grabbing my hands and dancing away from our other mates. Then when I came to leave he was hugging me and saying that he was going to miss me the most, and asking when he would get to see me again? is this jut the drink talking? Or did he mean that, normally he is the quiet one of the group and isn't as forward as the others.Is this a drunk comment that he wanted to say while sober? Or was it just a heat of the moment sort of thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I didn't think he was asking more that I could stay with him at some point.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 November 2013):
 well he's only gone for 6 months and it's way too early to think it's more than just the whole "i'm leaving for a bit" type of thing...
it's much safer to say things knowing that time and distance will make them fade.
the fact that you mentioned that he can have a partner stay with him concerns me... did you think he was asking you to come stay with him?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 November 2013):
 Ask him while he is sober.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe main thing is he will be coming back and he has the opportunity for a partner to stay with him.
It would be nice to know of it was just all the drink talking.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (3 November 2013):
I'm guessing a little of everything. Mostly the alcohol, I'd guess. But does it matter if he's leaving?
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