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female
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26-29,
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writes: I am 14, female, and bi. I like a girl, I don't know if shes straight, bi or gay. These are the things she's done: When she sits with me, she starts off at the edge of the seat and within 1 minute she is sitting very close to me, and as if she isn't close enough, whenever she wants to choose a song to listen to on my ipod she leans in closer and puts her hand over my hand. She stares at me a lot, and one time I caught her, and she had a shocked looked on her face and quickly looked away. She has also stared at me for a really long time I think because she was waiting for me to look at her. When I do finally look back at her shes smiles and so do I. She 'stole' my phone from me once, and when I was trying to get it back she grabed onto my hand and just held it for about 10 seconds until she finally gave it back. She was also poking me once and said it was fun to poke me, and shes messed with my hair once and said it was soft.I told my friend about how she was staring at me, and my friend texted back saying "She likes you, and wants to kiss you!" and then the girl I like read the text and had a shocked look on her face, and looked upset, or unsure of what to say, but she took my phone replied back to my friend saying "(there name) shut up!" and then she said "thats like gay..and gross" thats it. Okay...so I am soo confused! Before wasn't she showing signs of flirting? Why would she say that, or was she really not giving signs of liking me?
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reader, Asztryd  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 She definitely does seem very flirty, but they may just as well be signs of friendship and feeling comfortable with you. Are you guys close friends or just acquaintances? And does she know that you are bi? It could be that she is curious and wants to get a certain reaction from you (if she knows you are bi). Or maybe she is can sense that you have feelings for her, and she is reciprocating. About the text message, it seems like a normal reaction, either she was embarrassed that your friend said that (cause she wanted to kiss you) OR maybe she didn't want to kiss you and is upset that your friend would say that. If she is bi or lesbian, she is in denial about it, so its normal that she would say things like that. Give it time :)
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