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writes:I have been dating a guy for 8 months now; We saw each other every weekend and things were going great. He has been very slow with work and seems very down lately. I think he is pulling back a bit and doesn't seem like he is "so into me" as much. Believe me I am giving him space and doing my own thing. Most importantly I am trying very hard not to read into this...but I am a woman... WE THINK TOO MUCH!I didn't see him this past weekend and I'm not sure about this weekend...should I worry if he doesnt want to see me again? Or should I tell him I made other palns this weekend and give him more space...I really dont want to act like it's a big deal, but in my heart it is.HELP...What should I do... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): It sounds to me like there isn't a spark there at least at the moment.
I suggest that you go for it and try and ignite a spark between you and him if you really want him do that.
Try and make him feel really loved be really romantic and there for him and show you care in every way.
Waiting around for him could drive a wedge between you if you don't show you care and let your feelings out like you want to.
If he doesn't reciprocate move on hunny cos he is wasting your time and one day we will all be old and grey and will regret wasting our years with men who didn't reciprocate the love we offered them.
GOOD LUCK XXXXX
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