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writes:when my ex found out i had got back with my other ex she sounded suprised cause i was speaking to her on msn. anyway she kept asking how did this happen and she also wanted to become friends with my new girlfriend etc. then the next day she tells me she hates being single and started getting a bit angry with me and told me to leave her alone even though she is always the one who is talking to me. but the next day after that she said sorry and we were just talking like normal friends. then about 4 days later she tells me she has a boyfriend and that he is much better than me and i told her that i didnt beleive her and i even said that she was not being very nice saying that her boyfriend is better than me. but then i knew she was telling the truth i said sorry for not believing her and she just replied whatever and wasnt accepting my apology. but i think she was saying that cause her boyfriend was with her at the time. so i said to her you never loved me and went offline but when i went back on she deleted me on msn and i was texting her saying sorry but she didnt reply. but then me and my new girlfriend both decided to break up casuse we were too busy cause of her job and i was too busy with college and my job. so i told my ex about it and she said how stupid i was of dumping my other girlfriend again and i replied i didnt we both decided. then i asked her why she delted me from msn and she relied cause you were getting on my nerves and i said sorry then she forgive me but is giving me one more chance and i better not blow it. then we started talking again like things were back to normal but then she said her boyfriend called me a rude name as she was also talking to him on msn. i replied why he called me the rude name she said she doesnt know and she is not happy about it and even mentioned that he tells her what to do and that she has to talk to him on msn. so for some reason her boyfriend doesnt like me and i think she is not happy about her new relationship and why would she get a boyfriend so quickly when she found about me and the other girl. ive seen her boyfriend picture on facebook and she said he has spots but on his picture he hasnt go any so i think she was lying about that. she hasnt added me back on msn yet whats on her mind was she jealous please help
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (25 October 2009):
 May I ask how old you are? Because you sound younger than 18-21.
It sounds to me as though there's a lot of easily hurt feelings and a lot of dramatic statements, like deleting people from msn and getting boyfriends that only last a few days, comparing one boyfriend to another, and too many exgirlfriends floating around. I think it might be a good strategy to really get to know someone before becoming bf/gf, so that you don't wind up with quite so many exes.
Telling someone that their new boyfriend is much better than you is very immature. It's a sign that someone has a whole lot of growing up to do, if they're trying to upset you like that. It sounds like someone who is in their early teens.
I think I'd recommend ignoring comments that are obviously intended to be hurtful. You're getting caught up in overanalyzing things, I think. Just sit back a bit, focus on school and spend more time with people in real life, rather than on msn. Don't react to mean comments, ignore them, and definitely ignore the people who say rude and awful things. They are not worth your time. And of course, you don't say mean things, right?
Hope this helps. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): i need more answers
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 October 2009):
She was jealous, yes. I'm going to tell you now not to bother with her. And I'm going to tell you not to bother with any of your ex girlfriends from now on. You've learnt that rarely can you be friends with an ex, and that when you get back together, it often doesnt' work out. Don't chase her, she's not really worth the bother. Just really focus on yourself now, get yourself healed and move on from them both. You'll find someone else.
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