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writes:Does he like me?So there is this one guy and i was just wondering what is up with him. He throwing around some mixed signals and im not sure what to do. It all started summer where we attended the same parties and that an seen eachother at the bar. We had a pretty flirty relationship. Plus i also had this boyfriend and things were a little rocky. One night we ended up sleeping together an then i left cuz i was afraid of the awkwardness. It basically ended up staying awkward and we stopped talking. Boyfriend and i ended up calling it quits an i tried to give the other guy a chance. He didnt seem to take it so i let it go. He made it seem like it was a game with us. A game of cat and mouse. Im not sure if i just hurt him with my leaving or what. So then last weekend we ended up seeing eachother for the first time in awhile. Kinda talked and were playing a drinking game giving eachother a bunch of shots. He then had to leave for a moment and so after awhile he never came back so i just left cuz everyone was leaving. Guess after he came back and asked where i had gone. The following night we seen eachother at the bar and he watched me the entire time. Kinda said hello but he seemed to occupied with his friend that i just left to go back to my friends.Whats going on with him? Is he just messing with my head or maybe there something there that he doesnt wanna start.
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reader, yummyummy123 +, writes (11 November 2010):
yummyummy123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all your help :)
Basically that was what I was thinking but wanted to be certain an hear another input to decide if i should do anything bout it
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 I'm pretty certain he didn't get offended after you left..
It looks like you guys just had sex that one time, it is what it is..sex. If he wanted anything more than sex, then he would have taken the chance you gave him after you dumped your boyfriend.
If you want a relationship, it doesn't look like he's up to bat, now if you want sex again, I'm sure he'd be more than willing.
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reader, soinlovededra +, writes (10 November 2010):
Have you asked him or talk to him about how he feels ? You guys seem to drink alot when your near each other. the first time he may just have considered that a one night stand, and he may not have thought twice about it. If you really do have feelings for him let him know. Try to leave sex out of the conversation if your really trying to move on and have a positive relationship with him.just be truthful and go from there (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): Well, you've already slept together once so i'm thinking this guy might just want to do it again. It doesn't sound like he wants a relationship from the info you've provided. You said you tried to get with him before but he didn't take you up on it so i doubt he's suddenly changed his mind and wants a relationship. More than likely he wants a bit of fun that's about it.
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