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writes:Been talking ,texts, that's all,never met ,once by accident at a store but I was with another, we met on pof,so for six months or more we been texting, she only has one liners, until I stop writing her, now she writes a lot more, but now she says lets just be friends, she is afraid to get hurt, so I deleted her number,then she wrote me again, I text back and ask who it was, then she wrote back an said really you don't know who this is,when they say let's be only friends, to me that a nice way of saying not interested.was I wrong to delete her number, I didn't remember it.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 July 2019):
 I agree, don't overthink this.
If you weren't looking to make a new friend who could BARELY bother to talk to you (until you went quiet) then there is no point in keeping her contact info. Personally, I'd go one step further and just BLOCK her number. That way you don't have to wonder or have awkward *who are you* conversations with someone who was in a way wasting your time.
Better luck next time.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 July 2019):
 No, you weren't wrong.
It is true that often " let 's be only friends " is just a polite way of saying " not interested " and what they really want is to see you drop off the face of rte earth; but , even supposing that this lady REALLY, really wanted to cultivate a friendship with you ( and not just be chased after by you, get attention and cmpliments , or secure herself a " plan B " , as it is very likely )- well, then she does not get what she wants, because you'd have to want the same thing, and I suppose you didn't: I mean, you were looking for a woman to date , not just a platonic buddy , right ? What you want is important too ,not just what SHE wanted. So do not stay there overthinking this , and move to someone new.
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