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Was I used by her ? and are all girls like this ?

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Question - (11 August 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2006)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

My first girlfriend broke up with me, as she was getting back together with her ex. Was I used and are all girls like that? I know that sounds harsh but I don't actually believe a women would love me for who I am.

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (13 August 2006):

bonym agony auntSorry to hear what you went through, but believe me, not all girls are like that, well I certainly am not anyway.

Think of this as a blessing in disguise, perhaps she did you a favour, you deserve respect and honesty, she never gave you that, but in time, you will meet someone who will respect and love you, for who you are. xXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006):

Unfortunately, from reading on this site, and what others have to say and think...it seems to be a growing trend.

It isn't acceptable to be misused or mislead.

How did you decide to date and did she talk alot about her breakup...there must have been telltale "signs" that she wasn't over him and somewhere along the line...she decided to keep things from you. She was talking to her Ex and seeing him and that is a big NO NO.

She isn't worth worrying over and I say good riddance.

You will find some young woman who values what you value and who can be what you want and need.

Best of wishes.

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2006):

maxsteel86 agony auntMaybe it was a rebound thing... they tend to not last.

Dont let one bad experience get you down!

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A female reader, katzkitten United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2006):

katzkitten agony auntno not all girls are like that and belivie it or not some boys are like that. i no this for a fact cos the same thing happened to me with a few differences. like the fact it was a boy that did it. is ok. someone will love you for you! thats what i keep telling myself and im sure its true cos if you luk around some ppl you wouldnt think wud be loved are more loved than anyone else.you just need confidence and you are more attractive than ever!

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