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Was I too rude in telling him I didn't want to have sex?

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Question - (25 July 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Where would you say this was leading? You're at a house party, start kissing this guy, he starts feeling you up, it's getting heavy, he keeps trying to put his hand down your skirt. You're not comfortable with that and tell him to stop it.

I'm a pretty straight to the point person. Was it rude for me to tell that guy I wasn't like that and I didn't wanna have sex with him??

Thanks x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006):

What was the alternative?

You don't say any thing and you end up letting him have sex with you even though you didn't want to? I didn't think so...

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2006):

Wendyg agony auntBetter to have come out and directly told him rather than him saying you never said anything. I dont think it was rude, what else could you do other than say stop ? If you didnt want him feeling you up then its to you not him! I wouldnt worry about it, all it wold have done is maybe dented his pride, he will get over it and probably moved on to the next girl. Stick by your morals girl!

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A female reader, sparklyirirsheyes +, writes (25 July 2006):

absolutley not! how did he react when u said no? if he was understanding, i guarentee he has alot more respect for you. Guys like easy girls but the girls they have to work for are the keepers. Always respect yourself and never do anything you dont feel comfortable doing, cos remember, he's only human just like you so dont think he is anything superior to you cos he's not. Be true to yourself and your morals at all times and you will find someone who will respect that and love you for you and not for sex!!

Hope this helps xxx

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