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Was he letting me down easy before he went to Europe?

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Question - (5 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

And don't want to make myself false expectations. But before the guy I love left for a training job he's doing in Europe, I kinda let him know my feelings to him. Not directly, but more like for him to catch the idea.

I told him that not many people can care for him as I do. And he replied that he'll be very busy but if he has a chance he'll write and he'll be back soon enough and will definitely be in touch.

Was he letting me down cuz I wanted to write him while away, but he's email acct. was gonna change. Please help me,even as a friend I do want to keep in touch with him. He'll be back in a month and a half!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

So you love him and want to write to him, and he replied he will be very busy and he will be in touch soon enough? I may have read this wrong but it doesnt sound like love from the other side in my opinion. No one can say whether he was letting you down easy or not, aside from him. Be patient. If he doesnt write, it could really be that he didnt get the chance to. And you may want to keep in touch but if it all depends on him and him writing to you first, there isnt much you can do about it. But I wouldnt wait for him by any means. If when he gets back you are both interested, then pick up where you left off.

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