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writes:I like this guy and i commented on his photo on facebook,saying it was nice,and he said " why thank you, m'lady ".Do you think he was flirting with me lol and how should i respond ?.I'd like to think of something funny/flirty to say back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012): Did he had you on fb or did you friend request him? Has he commented on anything you wrote, sent you a message, or even liked your status updates?
9 times out of 9, the guy wants that girl he has to work for, the girl he chases. I don't think his thank you comment was asking for your response honestly. I think you are running the risk of pushing to make something happen and that backfires.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2012): Comments on FB can be easily misunderstood and therefore I suggest you keep it light and make him lead and do the first move, if he's interested ,trust me,he'll step up the game. Good luck x
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reader, Abella  +, writes (26 January 2012):
 he was responding in a gentlemanly way - what was called in medieval times a few hundred years ago - a 'courtly' manner.
Sure he was very gently flirting with you.
But don't ruin your chances by pushing too hard back.
Respond in a 'friend' way, with a reply about something he likes.
If he is particularly into being very 'gentlemanly' then it is he who will like to be the pursuer, not the persued.
Keep it light
Keep it happy.
But don't try too hard.
And comedy is tricky. Unless it is your full time Day job (writing comedy) then I'd not try to make a comedic offering, as it could back fire.
There is plenty of time for a gentlemanly guy to show interest in you yet.
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