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writes:Our situation is a little different to others I have seen posted. I got together with my husband when my little girl was 8months old. Biologically she is not my husbands but I was abandoned by her biological father and my husband has been there since she was a baby and has even taken guardianship of her. She doesn't know any different as the biolocial father has never wanted anything to do with her. She is now 6yrs old and we have had another baby girl together she is 19months old. I have talked and talked to my husband and he doesn't want a third he is happy with the two beautiful girls we have. I am happy to but in the back of my mind I would love to have two biologicaly with him??? Then I think well he's happy so why shouldn't I be, I feel selfish even feeling this way... is it just my excuse to want another baby or and I just a baby person and even if I was to have another would I want more after that.... I dont think I would. We have decided not to have a third but still in the back of my mind would jump at the chance if he even slightly chanced his mind. But he never would. The hardest part is that there seems to be so many people around me at the moment that are getting pregnant and it seems so unfair!! Some are having their fourth... And most of them don't earn as much as we do either (as my husband has said it is expensive after you have more than two, holidays, airfairs) and I can see them do and think well surely we can to.... How do I get rid of these feelings to get past it and lead a happy life with my two beautiful girls and great husband!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): My mum had four kids, she and my dad admit to us that they wish they stopped at two! Prices are going up, they say we would have had more holidays and money wouldn't have been so tight. There's nothing wrong with stopping at two kids, truth told I think it's smart.
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