A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:[OP original title]Ive been going out with my boyfriend for over a year. i love him alot, and he's so kind to me. But theres something thats bothering me ALOT. we still havent had sex! he cant stay hard enough to go all the way. i never let it bother me before because we do alot of other stuff...but still...why cant we just have sex!! not having the real thing is making me unbelievably horny!! the thing is i did a very stupid thing, the other week i got drunk and my ex came onto me after the pub, we walked home together and he dragged me into the woods and kissed me passionatly and told me that he wanted me, i was so unbelievably turned on, but i pulled away and went home.The thing is...i love my boyfriend, but feel that not having sex might push me away, i just want to please him, and i want him to want me and devour me!Advise please?
View related questions:
drunk, horny, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim 25 and he's 26, i think he reali is too young to take viagra... like wer's the raw animal instincts?!? he's young healthy,loves the gym and eats well. Do ex girlfriends play a part in destroying guys confidence in bed? i know him and his ex used to fight like ALL the time... but surely that has nothing to do with it. i swear i feel like tying him up and having my way with him!!!
A
male
reader, TimmD  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Having sex is a very important part of a relationship. It symbolizes love and desire. You shouldn't feel bad about wanting that. You need to talk to your boyfriend. Something is wrong, and it's either physical or mental. Every new relationship is supposed to have sex, and if you don't it's because you both want to wait... not because one of the partners (specifically the male) is unable to perform. He either has something wrong with him that he's not telling you, or that he doesn't know about and needs to be diagnosed.
Viagra would be an option, but it's not a solution. He's too young to need a supplement. (Unless he's a lot older then you are) Which, now that I think about it is a good question, how old is he?
...............................
|
