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writes: I feel really uncomfortable when I date guys. I'm currently dating a guy but I feel really uneasy to talk to him. My friends were asking me why I have been ignoring him, and he's been saying that when ever he comes to talk to me apparently I always find a reason to not talk back. I really want to be with him and every thing but I'm just ignoring him which I know is really wrong but I just can't talk to him. I think it's to do with what I've already been through. The guys that I used to date wouldn't stop touching me if you know what I mean, and it really scares me so I really don't know what to do. I'm also bisexual which doesn't help. I've been dating girls for about 3 years now and no boys at all. I really don't know what to do! I want to be with him and talk to him with ease! He's in most of my classes at school and he sits next to me in most of them so I really need help to get over my fear of dating guys! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2005): Honey, maybe you need to rethink your lifestyle. If yuo can't find guys you can talk to the way you talk to girls. Then, maybe you're full on gay. My mom's gay and this is exactly what happend with my dad. They just stopped talking.
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reader, clarence +, writes (11 October 2005):
you need to ask yourself why you feel so uncomfortable around guys, dont want to pry but has something bad happened to you that was done by a male?? this could be the answer to why you feel so uncomfortable with men, this guy obviously wants to get to know you, why not ask him to do something with you that you feel comfortable doing in everyday life and start from there xx
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