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writes: I've been seeing my partner for two years and recently my best friend has started texting him constantly, often using phrases only used by a lover/partner. I asked him about it after I couldn't stand it anymore and they both said I was just being paranoid. But how can it be when ever since she's started talking to him she's stopped talking to me? I trust my partner but I don't trust her and if I make him choose I'm scared of losing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2005): You cant just sit back with this bothering you and getting to you..youve got to talk to your boyfriend again and tell him how this is making you feel..also try talking to her and telling her that you dont feel she is behaving the way a best friend should be and how would she feel if it was the other way round..
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (11 October 2005):
 I doubt you're just being paranoid. There has to be something going on between them if she's stopped talking to you and is texting your boyfriend all the time. There's no reason for this if there's nothing to hide.
I don't think you should trust either one of them. Usually only guilty people are the ones stating that you're just being paranoid. There's something not right here and you should probably find out and fast. You don't people like this in your life and don't be worried about losing your boyfriend, there are plenty more out there that you could choose from.
Have you asked your friend why she does this? Have you asked your boyfriend the reason? You should ask them both or maybe find his phone and read them and see what he sends to her. They have to be hiding something. It just seems fishy to me.
Do some P.I. work and good luck. Don't let them be dishonest to you, and if that's what they're doing, ditch both of them. It's for the best.
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