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writes: Hi there, im a 15 year old boy. Round my "hood" there is two sisters who do paper rounds. The thing is I fancy one of them but cause I'm smaller than they are I'm scared to ask her out. I really would like to, I think she is lovely and think she has given me a flirty look before. How can I gain the confidence to ask her out. What do I say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2005): just ask her out man.
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reader, mikado +, writes (11 July 2005):
Dear vertically challenged,First of all height doesn't matter as much as you would have thought in these matters - and if she has given you a flirty look before she probably thinks the same thing.If you want more assurance, maybe you should find out a bit more about her. Maybe you've got the same interest in something., which is always good to know. Regarding asking her out, it depends if she is with her sister or not. "Hi" is always a good start for a conversation and you can say it in every case. You could aks how it's going with the newspapers today or something equally meaningless. If she is alone you could ask her if she would like to meet for a cup of coffee or whatever or if you know more about her maybe a place which holds interest for both of you. Another option would be arranging a party and just invite her. In that case it doesn't matter if her sister's with her, 'cause you could invite her along as well. But remember to speak to both of them if they're there, not just to look in your favorite's face, because it's likely her sister will notice and tease her a bit in that case!All the best,me
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reader, becky05 +, writes (11 July 2005):
Just say to her 'do you want to go out sometime' the worst she can say is no and at least you can say you tried!
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