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writes:I have been with my current GF for 10 months. Prior to her, I was in a very long term relationship. I have had problems adjusting to the new relationship sexually. I just can't get in the moment many times, and lose my erection or don't get terribly hard. I have tried viagra, and it works, but I can't keep buying the stuff... it's expensive. Plus, I don't think it's the sign of a healthy sexual relationhip if I need drugs to prop me up. I'm worried I just don't get as horny as I'd like to. She's very sexual, and I am a once-every-other-day kinda guy. Difficult to keep up. Not sure what to do. She doesn't know about my use of viagra. Do you think she'd be creeped out knowing I was using it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Thanks Ampersand,Yes, I am going through a divorce and just lost my job. So I am going through extreme amounts of stress, and that is indeed the root cause and both my doctor and I know it. Another issue I am having is she has had a more vibrant sexual past, and sometimes I can't get the images of these past encounters out of my head. For example, I know her ex was well hung and tehy did it on her couch. So it is difficult for me sometimes to do it there...other times it is better on teh couch...all depends on my mood and the stress level that day. But stress or not, it still sucks when you can't get it up or perform like you want to and know you can.
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