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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:It takes me absolutely AGES to orgasm from penetrative sex - I've only actually come once! - and because I don't want to bore my boyfriend or tire him out (I'm not exaggerating, it really does take ages), on the majority of occasions I'll reach to stimulate my clit and just orgasm that way. But I want to have a vaginal orgasm! Penetration feels soooo nice, though I never feel like we go for long enough to get me off. What can I do?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 You'll need to convince your man to supply the foreplay as "rhythmandblues2" suggested. Foreplay may include all the kissing, petting, massaging, breast sucking and licking, fingering, cunnilingus (oral licking, etc.), G-spot massaging, and a number of other things to heat you up. Actually, you are not at all unusual in this regard. Most women need foreplay, but unfortunately, most men are dumb about it. Have him read some of the posts about foreplay, G-spot rubbing, cunnilingus, etc. on this Web site, and perhaps a great book titled "She Comes First" by Dr. Ian Kerner. With proper foreplay, you'll likely climax a couple of times, then possibly again with intercourse.
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reader, Faye Telattraction +, writes (8 February 2009):
I have never orgasmed during penetrative sex and I am considerably older than you. They do say that if the distance between your vagina and your clitoris is more than the length between the tip of your thumb and the first joint then it is more likely you will not be able to achieve orgasm in this way. Just chill out and accept it and have fun doing a heap of other good stuff!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): It is all about foreplay, buy some books on sexual technique they are at the bookstore and on-line and read them together and practice makes perfect.
He should be warming you up for at least 20 minutes before you start having penetrative sex.....this isn't cheating, it is just the what women need to orgasm this way........and it does feel good....also, do not focus on him or worry about wearing him out....that is part of the reason you can't let goooooo....
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