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writes:my man had a vasectomy about a year ago here recently he has a problem of keeping it up we have tried a lot of different things like foreplay or him doing the deed before we have sex and a ot of other things nothing works and after he gets off it will not get hard again for the rest of the day i don't know what else to do please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Most men have a few erections a day, regardless of what the poster with no dick has to say on the subject. (Amazing the number of clueless women on this site who have to share every neron activity with everyone, regardless of the whether they're educated or informed on the subject. And don;t ever use the word slut -- even when a chcick has behaved like a slut....) Regardless, you're guy is probably having psychological problems, maybe associated with his "v" or not. My advise, would be to engage in more oral and hand jobs for a couple of weeks to get him off, without discussing it, making him feel relaxed. If it continues, have him consult an medical doctor/urologist to rule out physical problems, and then get a recommendation for a psychological consultation.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 April 2009):
I think Old Guy has it right.
Men may not want kids but their idea of their own Manliness depends a lot on the fact that they could go out and impregnate an army of super models should the opportunity arise.
I think as women we will never understand how much of their pride and self esteem is based on their genitals.
Try and very subtly boost his ego a bit. Let him carry heavy things, open jars, be a bit more girly and adoring. Let him do stupid boy stuff that involves hitting things and beating other people and getting covered in mud.
Could you organise him a paintball day with his mates?
Once he feels like a man again, the rest should follow.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): A properly-performed vasectomy should have no physical repercussions on erectile function. It might be worth having a follow-up visit with a urologist to make sure that everything is physically OK.
What's more likely is that he took a psychological hit. For some men, the idea that they can't make a baby anymore completely deflates them.
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