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male
age
30-35,
*drsep4
writes:I like my friend, she has a boyfriend and she's one year older than me. The other day she asked for my first track and field medal. She also wants me to sign a contract as a joke to make sure I give it to her. Usually somebody gives their medal to their girlfriend. Before I sign should I ask if one day she could be my girlfriend?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 she has a boyfriend - not you, so why give something special like that to someone? keep the medal and stay friends with her!! if she asks why you wont give it to her - be honest! tell her that ppl only really give their medals to their gf's but if she really does want it you'll give it to her. this way she could give you a response that will let you know wat she is doing
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reader, Lucy2118  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 I think she's trying either to trick you or playing with your feelings, maybe if you tell her your feelings she'll tell you what she's wants from you.Hope this helps.X
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): This sounds to me like some sort of blackmail plot on her behalf!
Why would you want to give away something you won, and which you can treasure for ever?
You keep it mate, and tell her if she wants a medal to get out there and earn one just like you did, or to get one from her current boyfriend if he's daft enough. If you give it away, you'll regret it later.
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