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Updated - the sex still hurts!

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Question - (27 June 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

updated...During sex when I cum he keeps going and it hurts really bad! It is right after my orgasm and then he keeps going and I have told him to stop but I feel like I leave him unsatisfied. It is like a friction burn maybe from the condom when he keeps thrusting. I'm just worried... should I be this worried?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006):

Vaginal lubrication comes from being sexually aroused. After you climax you are no longer aroused and the juices stop. The secret is hold off and come at the same time, usually easier for a girl. Something like, Astroglide should always be used with a condom. This also makes sure the condom doesn't get torn.

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A female reader, snowbird Canada +, writes (27 June 2006):

snowbird agony auntPoor you! ... have you tried lubricating yourself with ky jelly or something similar (not vaseline as it reacts with the latex, dissolves it I believe)? Maybe as he is taking so long to reach an orgasm himself you could give him a 'helping hand' and/or a good long blow job to shorten the time he spends inside you? Good luck!

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