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writes:hi i asked 4 help on a issue b4 and i want 2 add to it as something has happened recently(this was the wat i posted before)hi, ive bin goin out with a boy for 2 years and we were really serious, he always made me happy and feel special. but last month he insulted me and sed everything between us was a joke, he was jus playing about with me, cos it made him feel good playing with someones emotions. he said when i told him i loved him, he later on laughed until he cryed. he said i was a whore and he thought i was one ever since he first saw me. he loves me so much. i cant believe that, that was him, hes so different :( im really upset now and im findin it really hard to trust any boy now, plz help(now) well the boy that left me has come back to me and said wat he said he didnt mean any of it and hes sorry. i dont kno what to do cos i really love him but what he done to me i dont think i can trust hom again im so confused plz help :(this is what he sent me.......naina im sori, i ws pissd of on friday n i took it out on u, wat i sed 2 u i didnt mean. i reli hurt u, i no dat, fr dat i no a sori isnt enuf. i jus dnt no wat 2 do or say. i realised my mistake 2day n i gues u wont b hapi wid me. if u stil wnta cht 2 me dat ok wid me il tak dat as a sign of 4givness, but if u dnt den i tak dat as a no n il neva bother u agen.agen im deeply sori.xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): Yes, he needs to learn he can't just say things like that because he was upset!
How can you possibly "love" anyone who would dish out the filthy, stinking verbal garbage he did to you?
Polish up your self-respect and self-esteem and recognize that you deserve a boy who will be courteous, pleasant, knows how to control his temper and will not only enjoy your company, but will respect you!
Kick this one to the kerb, and don't look back - he is not worth your time, energy or attention!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): for a start he needs to learn how to write a text message in english .
but seriouisly hun, this guy doesnt sound a nice guy.we all say things in the heat of the moment when we're angry but he needs to learn you cant treat a person like that then expect forgiveness without putting in the hours to earn it, you may love him, but you'll move on and find someone who knows how to treat you well. give this guy the cold shoulder and let him learn his lesson, delete his number so your not tempted and just move on.
we all say things in the heat of the moment when we're angry
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 January 2007):
 He doesn't say anything about wanting to get back with you in that text which means he doesn't regret breaking up with you and therefore all the playing around. As far as I can see all he is apologising for is calling you a whore which is not enough. He is not a nice person and he doesn't deserve your forgiveness but I recognise love is a complex thing and that maybe you'll forgive him just on the basis of having loved him once. This is totally up to you but if it were me I don't think I could forgive that easily.
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