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writes:my friends boyfriend of abt 7 mnths has been disturbn me lately with texts n calls. he even told my friend that i dnt call him or contact him n he hates that i dont. its scary coz this is the third tym her boyfriends r doin this. she wud nt undestand am innocent n wud think it happens intentionally. presntly, i dnt lyk the idea of him n her anymore coz he is a flirt. i dnt no if i shud tell her or not, n how do i tell her to leave him?
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reader, loopylu33  +, writes (3 February 2009):
Your poor friend... I have been in this exact situation and i told my friend everything... My friend meant a hell of alot more to me and it worried me that i wasn't the only girl he was texting like this.... it is an awfull situation but hopefully your friend will see your doing the honerable thing.
Dont expect her to take it well as this will upset her my friend was gutted about the whole thing and did (before i showed her the the evidence) accuse me of leading him away from her.
Now we are closer than ever and i dont regret telling her... she got shot of him within the week and is now with a great guy who treats her 100 times better... in the long run she will thank you but you must tell her as you may loose her if she finds out before you tell her... I wish you the best of luck but i really believe that honesty is the best policy and that the only person you are protecting by not telling her is him... good luck x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): I suggest that you ignore all his texts and phone calls, and if need be, change your mobile number. You will have to make it clear to him that you are not interested in him and tell him to leave you alone. Stop responding to him if he flirts with you, just walk away or tell him that you think his is a jerk and should grow up.
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