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writes:I have a question about my sexuality. I am a girl that checks out other females. I messed around with some including having sex with them, but this girl wants a relationship with me. It feels akward. I don't know how to explain but, shes cute but, I don't know. It feels weird to have a relationship with a girl. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Yeh, i know what you mean and feel im going through the same thing, i think its just a phase
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Go for it, she may not be the right person for you but you should date her to see if it works. I think you feel that its still taboo for you and don't want to take the next step with her. Just try it, if it dosen't work then end it, what have you got to lose?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): im in a similar position, im not sure if im gay or not. at the end of the day, its what you want that matters. you were born like it and theres nothing anyone can do. if its that you fancy a girl but your parents or friends wouldnt approve then stuff them. thats all i can say
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): Maybe ur just bi-curious
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): I can understand where you are coming from exactly. I only like lesbian porn anything with a male disgusts me. However, when it comes to sex I love it with a guy but I always fantasize about having it with a girl. Basically I think you are just a little freaked out what others may think. I suggest giving it a try. You only live once and it could turn out to be the best or the worst. If its the worst just break-up and move on. However, if it is the best you will be happy you didnt miss out on it. Good luck and remember to brush off what anyone else thinks!
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reader, Melanne  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 Hi I can understand that you are unsure. You say you feel awkward about having a relationship with a girl why do you think you feel awkward? You seem to really like her and find her attractive yet there is a lot of confusion. Are there other factors influencing your decision to go out with this girl? Its almost as though part of you wants to and the other part doesn't. I think you need to go with your heart.
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