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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I am uncertain about some things, i have this crush on one of my guy friends. I have known him for almost half a year and we were so close that we confide in each other about our problems. We would always talk when we get the chance and we even chat with each other every night. He once told me he likes me but i'm not sure if he is serious because he likes to make fun of me and he always joke around. i told my friends about it and they said its true but me being stubborn i still couldn't believe it. let's just say i have trust issue because i have been used a lot by people. So what do you guys think? He does show interest in things i like, everytime we hang out he would make an effort to talk to me and once i didn't talk to him he had asked me why and he was so sad. but i'm still unsure of his feelings for me
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reader, justme..x +, writes (2 June 2011):
Well, the most obvious solution is to just ask him and find out where you stand. But that's a pretty daunting thing to do and if I were you I wouldn't want to!
Perhaps you could talk to a close friend of his to try and find out how he feels? Or, you can just continue as you are, keep talking to him, flirt a little, and wait for him to come out and say it. If he does like you, the flirting will encourage him to say something, and you never know, you may find yourself becoming a couple naturally :) Good luck whatever you do! x
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