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writes:What has happened is that my girlfriend has recently broken up with me. The first day she suggested the idea i was roayaly torn to to shreds. I sat around all day like there was no end in sight. However i was eventualy able to rise from my comfortable couch and overlook the stiuation in a new light. on the night she told me of her plot to become "freinds" she said that I deserver better and that i am to good for her. this of course i told her was false but she wouldn't have it. the next day i told her that I understood where she was comming from and told her what she wanted. She told me "It's over. we can be firend sif you want" mind you she has a troubled past. I feel that she is only scared of what to do and I wish to believe that she still loves me and I know that I love her.i don't know how to make her see that what she said is false and she obviously won't talk to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): Hi Hun
You could send her a message just saying you are thinking about her and you hope she is ok, That way she knows you are thinking but your not putting her under any pressure, Just see how that goes love good luck TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay its me again, i've been going throgh this a few more days now and i haven't said anyhing to her. i don't know whether to tell her good mornings and good nights, or to continue saying nothing at all. the problem that i have found with this is that if i choose to say nothing then she might think i've moved on but if i say something it will be ignored nad no response is soul-destroying.
Should i try to talk to her or wait for her to talk to me before i say anything?
I thank you for your advice it is very nice to hear what u have said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): Hi Hunny
I no you are upset but give her some time to miss you, If she does then she will phone..Sometimes when a girl says to a fella that he is to good for her and she doesnt deserve you, you deserve better and your better of as friends she may mean she is feeling that she is unsure of your relationship within herself. So hunny you can only see how this goes and try and get on with your life as best as poss..Its heartbreaking I no, If its meant to be then it will be, See what time brings hunny I wish you all the luck and love in the world and hope that this sorts itself out so that you are happy again TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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