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Unprotected sex, partner got a STD -- I'm scared!

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Question - (21 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2009)
A female , *vanna22 writes:

I'm 21 years old. I've had 9 parteners in my life. I used protection with only half of them. I heard my ex recently got tested for gonorrhea and got positive. I'm going to get tested and treated this week and i'm soooo scared!!!!! I'm so scared I got AIDS. Please calm me down. I feel suicidal. I don't want to know if I had AIDS because I will seriously shoot myself i'm not kidding. What do I do??? I'm so scared. I will never have unprotected sex again. I'm even scared to even have sex even with a comdome!!! Anyone can please calm me down or cheer me up??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

That all depends on whether he contracted it before he had sex with you. If he did, then you've almost certainly caught it too.

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A female reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (22 April 2009):

Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Ivanna22 agony auntI understand that's they're different diseases but for some reason I got scared I might have gotten something else besides the gonorrhea. Idk I guess I just got paranoid, but I will be cautious from now on

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A female reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (21 April 2009):

Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Ivanna22 agony auntThanks. So since he's tested positive for gonorrhea the chances I got it too are really really high right?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009):

AIDS and gonorrhoea are two entirely different diseases, so if he's only got gonorrhoea he won't have passed AIDS on to you. Gonorrhoea is fully treatable with antibiotics, AIDS is not.

Go for your tests and see if you've picked up something nasty. If you haven't you can breathe again, but for heaven's sake take all necessary precautions in future - and don't use two condoms at once, that's less safe than using just one.

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