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writes:My questions involve getting undressed. When making out how will we know when it is time to remove our clothes? Should I ask him to undress or just undress him? Should we undress in the bedroom or can we strip in route to the bedroom? Should kissing be involved in undressing? If so, how?Should talking be done while we are kissing and undressing? What should be said? My boyfriend and I have not seen each other naked. What should be done when we get done undressing? Where on his naked body should I kiss? Is there an order that he would enjoy?Thank you for answering my question. I look forward to your reply.Sincerely, Lexi
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): NOOO dont talk to him, make it spontanious, and you should start its such a turn on
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (23 November 2007):
There's no specific way of doing and you'll not get a 100% accurate answer.If you want do something that will really turn him on ask him,he's the best person to ask.I really don't mind where my gal kisses because just having her kiss me anywhere drives me crazy but you could always try giving him oral.Just be careful,if he's one of those guys that comes too quickly on da 1st round he may cum in your mouth.Ultimately you need to talk to him so you can know what he likes and you may know what you like.It's hard to plan exactly what you are going to do when you are with your partner.Just follow your insticts and go with the flow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): Well Lexi ahh...if u feel uncomfortable about removing your clothes maybe the 2 of you should talk about this i kno it may seem imbarrasing but give it a try..or jus try what you said...! ur welcome
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reader, love-him  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Hi babe, whilst kissing, then you just start taking his clothes off and he will react the same way to you, if he hasnt already ;) with talking during kissing, this is hard, but can be done, just make sure you dont bite his lip :) there shouldnt be a problem with seeing each other naked, you are yourself, and he will like you however you look :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me about anything :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): Just go for it when the mood arises. You shouldnt do anything like this to the book anyway. Just be yourselves and you will know when and how to take off your clothes.
take care
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Hi Lexi. I know it's important to you, I'm sure your motives are right. However, I do think you are planning this like a wedding reception. Sure, it's an important occasion. But it's not a formal occasion. It sounds like you are looking for some sort of "bedroom etiquette." My personal opinion is this is a time when you should be at your most natural. A time when the two of you respond and react to each other, and watch each other's reactions. Mutual exploration of each other's minds, bodies and feelings. Not a time to follow a script.
Plan a time when you will not be disturbed and lots of time. Plan safe sex. Plan to be clean. That's all. Richard
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): Hi Hunny,
Well how to start.. when you start kissing your kisses will become more passionate as time goes on you will feel highly sexually charged at this point you will then both want to make the move so as you feel your getting to that point hunny just gently start removing his clothes he should then follow suit. It should come naturally from there.
follow you heart and feel the pleasure and most of all dont worry about what your doing make your mind feel free and enjoy the moment I hope this helped my b/f in trouble tonight cheers love mandy xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): Gorblimey! There's not set rules on this. Not that I'm aware of anyway! I'll tell you how it went with me and my partner the first time.
We were on the settee having a friendly kiss and a cuddle. She said that if we weren't careful we'd end up in bed. I said that sounded a bloody good idea. She got up and stood some way away and asked me what I wanted to do. I told her that I'd like to take her into the bedroom, take all her clothes off and play with her body. She said "Come on then!". So I followed her into the bedroom where she stood in front of me while I sat on the bed and undid her buttons & zips and peeled everything off, kissing every bit of naked flesh as became exposed. I slobbered all over her with my tongue hanging out like a big dog. She then took over and took my clothes off and returned the favour. Two minutes later we were 'at it'. Brilliant. Hole in one!
My guess is everything will come naturally just like it did with us. Hang loose and enjoy, and don't be embarrassed about anything.
Phil
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reader, Charley Coles +, writes (22 November 2007):
Hey Lexii.Look I know this one i was there. When your kissing put a song on and the while kissing him on the lips just start undressing it he will return the favour if your using protection have a condom at the ready ok.Dont speek let the kissing do the talkin then kiss his neck and his body e.g belly find ways to really turn him on and see were it goes dont plan sex just let the fuckin thing happen lol
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