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writes:Dear CupidIt's been 2 weeks since my boyfriend blocked me everywhere apart from Facebook. I guess I can't call him fb anymore right. And he didn't officially dump me, but blocking kind of told me what I need to know. He blocks me often and he unblock me usually after a week or two once I beg him or once he thinks I have suffered much.This time I didn't do anything, kind of feels good to acknowledge that so called relationship is over and I'm free. And he is verbally and emotionally very abusive, his favourite playtime is making sure I have zero self esteem left and breaking my sprit.Long story short, I left him a message today to return my stuff back. Haven't got any response yet, how may days can I wait before I go to his place to take my stuff back.?Ps- we were together for past 5 years and it has come to this, no breakup but blocking
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2015): you need a relationship where you feel valued and this guy is certainly sending you the wrong message.It is wonderful that you can set your self free and you have certain rights when it comes to collecting your stuff. As he has been volatile and abusive in the past you can phone or contact the police asking for them to accompany you on this trip so that their are no misunderstandings or trouble.You might think this is a little too forceful but it sends a clear message to the ex that it is finally over and their will be no future arguements in court about he kept my tv or she trashed my bed while i was out the building or she brought another man back to my house, plus you have a witness to you returning the key,the boyfriend gets a little consolation from the officer that it doesnt always work out right and not to do anything stupid and advice to maybe change the locks and its all cut and dried,right there and right then without any hard feelings on either side. Other than that your dad could accompanyyou if necessary.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (8 June 2015):
 What an ass. Go get your things before he throws them out! A man luke him is capable of much idiocy and stupidity. Hell do more damage to you as long as you let him. Go get your things. Maybe even bring your dad to help you collect it.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 June 2015):
 You have a key? Or need for him to let you in?
If you have a key call him tell him I'm on my way over to pick up my stuff, if you don't want to face me, be gone from 3.30-4.30pm. (or whatever time) then go get your stuff and leave the key.
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