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writes:[OP original title]Two months ago my friend had me meet this guy,who is currently my boyfriend.We've liked eachother since the day we met but only started being boyfriend/girlfriend about two weeks ago.Me and him are really good together(i think)and i love being around him but he lives far enough to the point where i cant see him as much i'd like to.when i'm not with him i'm hanging out with my friend(not the same as the one i previously mentioned) and this other guy.We've only known eachother a little while but i already know he's a really good guy(for the most part).He likes me a lot and i like him too but i don't know if i can see myself being in a relationship with him.While my boyfriend wasn't talking to me (because of me questioning if he really loved me because it's kinda soon i feel like)the other guy was there for me and when i was with him eveything just sort of went away and didn't matter anymore.i forgot all about the things that we're bothering me with my boyfriend and i really liked that.but last night didn't go so well with other guy because i told him that i couldn't leave my boyfriend.i felt like crap after because he ended up not wanting to talk to me and walking away from me and the friends we were with.He said he had to walk away because he didn't want me to see him start bawling.I guess he likes me that much..Now im really unsure of who i should be with. Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 August 2010):
 Or he said that for the effect he knew it would have on you. This guy knew you had a BF and has been doing his best to replace that BF with himself.
Ultimately you've got some soul searching to do. If you like guy 1, then be with him. If you like guy 2, then be with him instead. Don't play both of them though. You can weigh the pros and cons of both and go from there.
Who are you most comfortable around? Who makes you feel the best when you are around them?
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