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writes:Six months ago I fell in love. With two men, Matt (19) and Austin (17)Matt is a quiet, nice, dirty minded guy, though the army turned him weird and he has three main personalities:Matty - The name his ex gf called him, he's the nice one, the one I can talk to, joke with.Zero - Depressed, quiet, emotional.And Matthew, emotionless and cold. We were together for two months before he told me he was straight again, I was just an excuse to rebel against his homophobic family.We are now just friends.Austin used to be a drug dealer, he likes ICP and sees me as a little brother now, because his love for me started to fade a couple of weeks ago...we made love, then his ex gf called me, we had a chat...he'd used her, and she wanted to warn me. Now we are just friends.- - -Anyway, I am still in love with them both, they both flirt with me in little ways, even though Austin now has a girlfriend...he wants to take me and her on holiday when I'm 18 (I'm 13 now). Is it normal to be in love with more than one person?. Why do they still flirt with me?. I want them both back, how can I get over this?. Is it normal for a guy to want to take his current gf, and ex bf on holiday together?. I was an excuse to rebel, did Matty ever really love me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut I know its love, I've had crushes and thought I was in love before...and this is nothing like that, its like, more intense and stronger. I can't really describe it...
I've tried dating other people, but it doesn't work...its like theres a big hole in my heart and whenever Matt comes back to me after a row with Kate (a whore, he's been in love with her for years) he makes love to me, and its like the hole has been filled...the same whenever Austin held me and stuff..I know I can't force love, but I know my love is real D:
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): Your thirteen, you shouldnt be with older men, and if you think your in love with two men, well then its not love, when you love someoe, its just them, no ifs ands or buts. By what you said, i dont think either of them feel love for you in the way you want. I Say look into dating someone new, and who is forsure gay. You cant force love. It will come when its ment to be. Be patient.
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