A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so I just started dating this guy about a week ago. He's like when do you want to go out again, Friday or Saturday? I answered, "Saturday." I'm thinking we're not exclusive yet..not sure. I don't want to ask him. But the thing is he didn't say, "Let's hang out on Friday." But then last night he asked me what my plans were for Friday and with who? I said, the girls are just coming over... Did he want to do something on Friday? Why not just say so?!? I asked him the same question and he answered, "Well my friend called me and wanted to hang out on Saturday, but I said I couldn't because I have a hot date." Lol. So, my question is...if we've just gone out on (2) great dates. We act like we're dating. Should I be leaving my weekends open for him? I mean eventhough he doesn't ask ahead of time. His thing is he'll mention one day out of the week and like a day before the weekend asks, "So, what are you doing." I'm confused! Reply to this Question
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Typical. He's trying to gage your interest with him by giving you suttle hints. It sounds like he is trying to get you to make the first move. Thats kinda a wussy thing but maybe he just doesnt want to come on too strong. I say if you like him tell him and then he will probably do the right things. But you should do the things you want like go out with youe friends if they ask before him.
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