A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have stupidly wound up in a difficult situation with two boyfriends.One - R - I have been with for a year and a half. R and I are in a polyamorous relationship; all is fine as long as we keep each other in the know.The other - A - has no idea about R, and is not up for the polyamory. Unfortunately, I have fallen in love with A big time and would wind up losing him if I came clean.I move away next July. I have told A that I don't want to have a long distance relationship - so it is likely the relationship with A will not become very serious. So I am not worried for the long term - but the guilt is overbearing and I am struggling to enjoy myself.Help?P.S I know this is unconventional; please approach this with an open mind!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): Okay, so the guy who doesn't know imdeserves better than someone who lies to them so do them the favour and leave!! You should feel guilty and trust me you won't get reasurance on this site so just do the right thing and make sure everyone knows everything that's going on. He has a right to know.
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