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writes:I have Something bothering me lately.It happened a year ago and i dont no why its just startin to bother me again! I was lyin in bed wiyh my bf, when a girl rang him up,beside me! She asked him y he didnt come round hers, that he said he would, and he casually replied "ive been work and Im tired!" She insisted that he blow kisses to her,in the end he said mwah and put the phone down! We had a blazin row,he said she was some1 he knew and was messin about! He said he needed to calm down and he was going "round his mates house".Like an idiot I was so gobsmacked i let it go over my head.he returned a few hours later,said he went to his mates then to the club.Months later I heard that he didnt go 2 his mates but a girls house.He denied it all.The person i heard this off was his "mate", who actually stabbed him in his arm! Ive confronted them both 2geva,my bf has always denied it.Y is it botherin me now? I know he'd never hurt me intentionally now.Am i worryin over nothing? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo i dont think its nufin like that.Hes been at work then hes with me,i live with him.I trust him.Its just when I hear other stories of guys cheating, it breaks my trust in all men!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 It could be bothering you again because you are picking up signals that hint that your boyfriend might be being unfaithful to you. This is presuming you have agreed to a monogomous relationship?
Sometimes we get the feeling before we realize that triggered it: maybe something has changed recently that has got you worried? Think carefully what has happened in the last few weeks. Is anything different? Something is making you nervous. Whatever it is it is making your subconscious alarm bell ring.
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