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writes:Hi, I am a newly married irl.I love my husband a lot but am not able to enjoy sex with him. One of the major reasons is that he has too much hair on his body.I have told him a few times that i don't like too much hair on his body and asked him to trim it but I think this has hurt his male ego.He has made no efforts to remove it and is very comfortable with it.I cannot tell him that it is a big turnoff for me and it is because of his hairy body that i'm not attracted towards him when we are in the bed because if i say so i may worsen the case and don't want to hurt him.Please help me with how can i convince him to get a well groomed body with less hair.Please help me with your suggestions. Reply to this Question
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reader, R1  +, writes (11 April 2013):
 if it hurt his ego surely he would have done something about it.
Rather than telling him how much his hair turns you off why not tell him how turned on you will be by his smooth skin. If you make it sound sexy enough i'm sure he'll be grooming himself in no time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2013):
I think your being very judging on appearance quite vain infAct .. How would you like if hubby said oo darling you are perfect but your like an ironing board no chest up top. Go get bigger boobies . InfAct I love you so much I made an appointment for you ..
This is not his issue but yours.. If you dated got engaged then married then I assume that you would know he was hairy? Am I right ? Then it shoulda been a deal breaker then if you didn't find it attractive .. Waxing is blooming sore as we women know .. Asking your hubby to wax body hair I think is pretty lame..
Good luck you'll need it.. I would be very insulted if I were your hubby and get ready he might just have a few things about you he thinks are quite not right but because he loves you really loves you he could over look them .
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (10 April 2013):
Women always vaguely hint at things and wonder why guys don't do what they are wanting. Hinting isn't working and it'll continue to be that way so you have to be direct with him.
First you should research male hair removal. Shaving would probably be a nightmare so find another way. Set up an appointment for him and then have a talk with him when he's on a good mood. Tell him that you don't know the best way to say this because you really don't mean to hurt him, and you love him and find him to be attractive, but that if he removed his hair you'd find him irresistible.
Tell him you made an appointment for him to have it removed and that you want him to go.
If he gets his feelings hurt that's not your problem, he's just sensitive.
If he chooses to follow through, great. If not then you'll have to be the one to change, either that or you'll have to one up things and tell him that it's a turn off (instead of trying to avoid saying that).
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (10 April 2013):
Yes that is a very sensitive area to deal with and you have his male ego to consider.Maybe at a romantic moment you might say to your husband that you would be even Turned on more if he were a little less hairy.Best Luck Nora B.
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