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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey all, I'm 15 and have a dating advice question. The girl who I'm madly in love with has a boyfriend. We'll call her Sammy. I've known her for about a year now in school and lately I've been talking to her a lot at school and texting/calling her most days. We talk all the time in the period we have with eachother and whenever we see eachother in the halls. One day when I asked if the guy I saw her with all the time was her boyfriend, she replied 'kinda i guess'. She proceeds to tell me she's been with her boyfriend for about 9 months now, but she tells me he's really mean sometimes and they fight alot. One day she was showing me her phone and tellin me about him and she opened a message "No, f*cking meet me", or something like that (just thought that was interesting). Anyway, I know that regularly you'll tell people to not interfere with relationships, etc, but do you think it's ok to try to interfere here? Anyway, I'm also trying to spend more time with her outside of school but I'm reluctant to ask because she's got a bf. How can I spend more time with her outside of school? Also... When she's with her boyfriend at school at lunch, etc, how should I act? Sometimes I'm too shy to go say hi because she's talking with him... I'd really like to know what you all think.
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reader, Memorize  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 hello
just like what peoriaman said, just be a friend, dont be shy to walk to them too.
If you see some phyical abuse your if you think that shes emotionly damaged then, if you think you can take a stand, BUT only if you think its right. try to remember how she might react if you do, and the boyfriend, i dont want to start a fight. so be a good friend and take interest into her well-being.
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